when does it become too much?

hi guys!

its been an age, hasn't it? however am not going to go on and on about why i have been away for so long,am sure You've heard it all.  life has just been generally life. with its up and downs. triumphs and disappointments. not much has changed in the life of your girl except the fact that i am now in a relationship.

this is where it becomes a bit tricky. i have been seeing this gentleman for about a month now but i feel like all is not well. i also feel that am a bit rusty on the rules and regulations that are present in any relationship. when do u sleep over at his place without feeling like a slut. when do you say the dreaded L word even though you feel it? how many times are you allowed to call him in a day,without being a pest? Do you wait for him to say the L word before you do? what are his financial responsibilities in the relationship? are you allowed to ask him for stuff? all this questions are running riot in my mind and am wondering when does  one do all these without making him run away before you can get him to the altar.

anyway i have decided to go with the flow and take it one day at a time and if it will work out,it will.

ciao

tobi